• Redefine What Defines You

    Y’all, this was my biggest ah-hah of 2020. I’ve been goal setting and creating vision boards for years. And it was just recently that a lightbulb went off.    I’ve been looking at what I’m working to achieve all wrong. I’ve been making the car, the financial independence, the physically fit physique be my goals. Those are the things on my vision board. BUT WAIT! Are these really my goals OR are they blessings I hope to have along the way? See this is what I woke up to. We can’t let things that can be taken in the blink of an eye define us. Let me see if I…

  • New Year, New Beginnings

    I think it’s safe to say we are all ready for a brand new year. We all anticipate the feelings of inspiration, hope, and new beginnings. All looking forward to happier days ahead. What if I told you that you are the one that controls if there are happier days ahead.  I know 2020 was full of turmoil, uncertainty, fear, frustration, heartache… I could go on and on.  But in order to have happier days ahead, you must let go of the negative. We must focus on the beauty that came out of 2020. Be grateful for the lessons learned. Be grateful for the extra time to reflect. We can…

  • Mental Clarity

    Do you feel like this year has flown by? So fast, that you’ve completely lost control and feel like at anytime it could derail? Or maybe it’s already derailed and your just rolling with the punches to make it through the rest of the year?  We don’t have to let our lives run us. We are in control. Sometimes it just takes you being intentional about throwing on the emergency brake, grabbing the reins, and deciding where your life is going. I wish I could tell you that this is an easy thing to do. I wish I could tell you it’s as easy as thinking a pretty thought before…