• Redefine What Defines You

    Y’all, this was my biggest ah-hah of 2020. I’ve been goal setting and creating vision boards for years. And it was just recently that a lightbulb went off.    I’ve been looking at what I’m working to achieve all wrong. I’ve been making the car, the financial independence, the physically fit physique be my goals. Those are the things on my vision board. BUT WAIT! Are these really my goals OR are they blessings I hope to have along the way? See this is what I woke up to. We can’t let things that can be taken in the blink of an eye define us. Let me see if I…

  • New Year, New Beginnings

    I think it’s safe to say we are all ready for a brand new year. We all anticipate the feelings of inspiration, hope, and new beginnings. All looking forward to happier days ahead. What if I told you that you are the one that controls if there are happier days ahead.  I know 2020 was full of turmoil, uncertainty, fear, frustration, heartache… I could go on and on.  But in order to have happier days ahead, you must let go of the negative. We must focus on the beauty that came out of 2020. Be grateful for the lessons learned. Be grateful for the extra time to reflect. We can…

  • How To Stay On Track Through The Holidays

    Are you one of those people that absolutely dreads to holidays or loves them? Do you already have a headache just thinking about getting everyone dressed and ready, loaded in the car with the crock pot of macaroni (praying it doesn’t leak), just to go to grandmas house so everyone can ask you the same questions about what you’re doing in life over and over again? Or maybe you love the holidays and have been looking forward to grandmas famous Thanksgiving lunch for weeks and you’re ready to put on your stretchy pants and “Gobble til you Wobble”.  Either way, it’s safe to say it’s hard to stay on track…