Flame Dampers


Unlike Flame Stokers, Flame Dampers are activities that will wreck your momentum. These activities are not done with intent or purpose. They tend to creep up if you are not deliberately watching for them. They will take you off track and can destroy progress you have made toward living an On Fire Life

When living an On Fire Life you must constantly be watch for Flame Dampers. Again, take time to think about what traps YOU tend to fall in and feel free to add Flame Dampers to this list. 


  1. Not taking time to dream
  2. Holding onto unforgiveness
  3. Selfish Dreams
  4. Holding onto anger
  5. Not striving to be a better you
  6. Letting “lack of time” rule your life
  7. Dreaming too small
  8. “Self” serving 
  9. Following the dream OTHERS expect of you
  10. Staying in your comfort zone
  11. Not having faith
  12. Abandoning your dream

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